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Let me tell you about the lie that you’ve been sold. Love does not start at sex. Love starts with divine connection, when two people meet because God ordained their footsteps toward each other. Love starts in courting and communicating. Through that communication, a bond is built. Psychology shows that physical intimacy before emotional safety creates false attachment, not real love. The brain releases bonding chemicals that make people feel connected before trust, character, and compatibility are established. The Bible already told us in 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 that love is patient, kind, and selfless. That means love begins with character, not chemistry. Pay attention to people's fruits which is the life they live, the way they speak and behave.  Connecting with the person you love, and being intentional about walking toward marriage with them, must first take place emotionally... where both of you share deep feelings, vulnerability, and learn how to be naked before each o...

In the movie  Beastly , Vanessa Hudgens plays Lindy, a young woman who sees beyond appearances. She loves Kyle not in his beauty, but in his ugliness, his darkness at first because she sees that deep down there is goodness. Lindy was a priceless and special woman. too good for kyle you could say. This is why Kyle is terrified that if she truly sees how “ugly” he is, inside and out, she will not love him. But that fear is simply his insecurity being exposed. What he doesn’t realise is this: her presence that is unique, her beauty inside and out, her gentleness, her comfort, and the goodness in her heart begin to change him. It isn’t that she ignores his brokenness. It’s that by giving him space to open up, she silently tells him, “I see you. I understand you. I'm not judging you” He loves her more not because she avoided his darkness, but because she accepted him for who he was. Yet her beautiful presence did not allow him to remain the same. It inspired him to become a better m...